Emotions and behaviors are closely related because behaviors can tell us so much about what a person is feeling. We can look at Jesus and his reactions to infer the set of emotions he was having. Jesus did not just "have" feelings and then stuff them. His being, his body had a response. Such a discussion of Jesus and his emotions helps us access the truth about being a whole, healthy human, too. Let's look at the most obvious.
Sometimes, Jesus had a measured response, like when he "sighed" before the deaf/mute. (Mark 7:32-35) Was it a sigh of pity or, as translations show, was it reflective of the strong emotions he felt as he battled satanic power? Jesus also sighed at the request from the Pharisees for a miraculous sign his authority. (Mark 8:11-12) This sigh was obvious distress over their obstinate unbelief and it is recorded as "sighed deeply," indicating it was a groan.
Have you ever groaned under the weight of pressure?
Sometimes, inference can be made about emotion given the context and action in which Jesus is engaged. It is not too hard to infer Jesus' vehement indignation with Herod and the Pharisees' threat to his work in Luke 13:32. Jesus responds to Herod's threats by calling him a name! His boldness comes ringing through as he offers this stinging retort:
A few minutes later some Pharisees said to him, "Get out of here if you want to live, because Herod Antipas wants to kill you!" Jesus replied, "Go tell that fox that I will keep on casting out demons and doing miracles of healing today and tomorrow; then the third day I will accomplish my purpose."
Jesus' expressions of anger do not end with just verbal exchanges. The picture that John gives us of Jesus cleansing the temple is the most graphic of all the Gospels. Jesus fashions a whip (notice the forethought) and used it forcefully to drive the merchants out of the temple. This is a passioned Jesus, demonstrating it with a strong human response.
Take note of the passion in Jesus' weeping, too. In English, "weep" is a passive, tepid word, but it is translated from a Greek word that has connotations of "overflowing" and "sore." That would be "wailing" in today's English. Jesus felt such loss over Jerusalem's future destruction and the grief-state of Mary and Martha's loss of their brother that he was overly demonstrative. Both are examples of deep and heartfelt anguish.
Yet, this Man of Sorrow was never far removed from also being the Man of Joy. Jesus was responsive to the joy inside of himself. When filled with the joy of the Holy Spirit, Jesus gave thanks to God (Luke 10:21; Matthew 11:25-27). He greatly rejoiced with the 72 when they returned with the report of their great successes over demons and sickness. Jesus took particular note of the source of his joy and explained it to the disciples, "I saw Satan falling from heaven with a flash of lightning!" and properly focused the disciples' joy by adding, "Don't rejoice just because evil spirits obey you; rather, rejoice because your names are registered as citizens of heaven." (Luke 10:18-21). Then, after the resurrection, I can only begin to imagine how much joy was exchanged between Jesus and his disciples!
Past what is obvious by Jesus' emotions and his responses, we can probably presume some things about Jesus' emotional life by his associations with certain types of people. The Bible records him eating with tax collectors and "notorious sinners" and that the Pharisees looked down on his behavior. I assume Jesus wasn't condemning those at the table, but laughing and participating in hearty discussions, especially since the Pharisees were so quick to call Jesus and his disciples "gluttons and drunkards."
Well, it seems like Jesus knew how to have a good time. He got along well with others (except the authorities). Hey! That sounds like me! How much of that sounds like you?
We are not done exploring the emotions of Jesus, but I want us all to begin to see his human self, so you can see and honor your human self more clearly, too.