Dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But, if anyone does sin, we have an Advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous. He himself is the sacrifice that atones for our sins--and not only our sins but the sins of all the world.
We an be sure that we know him if we obey his commandments. If someone claims, "I know God," but doens't obey God's commandments, that person is a liar and not living in the truth. But those who obey God's word truly show how completely they love him. That is how we know we are living in him.
Specifically, those who say they live in God should livve their lives as Jesus did.
1 John 2: 1-6
This is the holiness standard: avoiding sin, keeping Jesus' commandments in such a way that demonstrates an intimate relationship with Jesus. It includes walking the same path as Jesus.
Where can we learn about intimacy? The word here in the Greek, is the word for sexual intimacy, which is a metaphor for its other definitions. It involves a meaning around deeper perception and understanding. It is a comfort, a caring, a common experience, a shared history that allows for stability, growth and care of others.
That's my love life with my husband. As we know each other deeply, our relationship is grown and is consistent. Out of its strength and depth, we are both in a position to love others who need it. Some marriages only have enough stability and strength to love their children or maybe their immediate family. The ability to provide strength and stability demonstrates the marriage's depth and security. The ability to be part of impact on a community comes from depth of relationship in a marriage.
Holiness is a relationship pursuit with Jesus Christ such that there is revelation and restoration for person, family and community. The ongoing commitment to Jesus is about intimacy-building. The comfort and care, a reflection on our past experiences together allows for stability, growth and care for others, as my marriage deonstrates. It is proof of being on the same path as Jesus.